org lain kawen juak tapi sik lupa sedara

The story began just a few days before my wedding day, last March. Dah basik duhal cerita tok..hihi. That nite, i was in the middle of sumthing in the kitchen when suddenly someone knocked our door. One makcik with her son buat lawatan ke rumah. That makcik is my cousin's wife, bayangkan umurnya mencecah 60, (i guess), but pangkat cousin to me & anak laki nya umur 30++, slightly older than my husband. Her son is my nephew la kan..actually we (me and my 2 crazy sisters) havent met our nephew for such a long time. I remembered the last time i saw him when i was still in secondary school. He is a pilot and now working at KL, tall and good looking guy but my husband lagi encem la. So that nite, their intention was just to visit our dad. I was in the kitchen and planned not to lepak with them, afer salam2, cepat2 larikan diri ke dapur, but my dad kacau daun la, he called me to sit down with them and i passed the wedding card to them. When i passed te card to the makcik, i cannot run away from there anymore. So i just sat there, chit chat with them. I was sitting in front of my nephew. We talked a lot then suddenly talked about facebook. He wanted to get my phone number, the reason was he will sms me his email address, so that i can add him in facebook la kunun. At that time, i didnt think any bad thing, so i just passed him my phone number. After 1 hour chit chatting, they left. Before i went to bed at 11pm, i received his text, saying goodnite bla bla bla. So i just replied for the sake of he is my nephew and i am his aunt. The sms-ing continued the next day, sms of goodmorning, takecare bla3. That afternoon, he asked me to go out for lunch but i told him that i was into sumthing and need to go to bank. The story didnt stop there, at 3.30pm that day, he was asking me to go out for dinner la pulak. I asked for my sisters's opinion and they told m nothing is wrong. Although I felt sumthing was wrong but i thinked positively that time. I told him that i will bring my sisters along. Then he said he wanted to meet me after work la pulak! I didnt know what else should i tell him so after work, i went to mall and meet him there, but luckily his mom came too. We went for minum2 and he showed me, with his handphone, his new house which he bought at KL, around RM300K. Actually i was not comfortable when he talked about the house bla3..as if mcm mauk show off..my husband pun ada beli rumah but i didnt tell him bout it pun. After that, i really dont want to meet him again, im not comfortable. But he kept on sms me. In one day, i received 2-3 sms from him! He even sent me cute sms. My husband pun sik pernah hantar..adoiii..Until my wedding day, he still call n sms me, but i just ignore. One is because i was too busy with wedding preparation, Two is because im not comfortable with him, Three is because im getting married, why mauk sibuk2 hal org kan. He even use another number, beacuse everytime he called me using his number, i will not answer. After my wedding ceremony, he keeps on trying to call me, all i do is ignoring and ignoring. In my facebook he also likes to comment my pic/post. I just ignore. Until yesterday he texts me.. saying that i simply ignore his comment and he has been monitoring it quite sumtimes. Then the sakit hati part is "org lain kawen juak tapi sik lupa sedara". Hellooo? Im not that type of person lah but for you, i have to treat you like that. Bukanla cakap aku perasan but u still have lots of single aunties/cousins..why bother me?! Im married now but doesnt mean i cut my connection with my relatives. We are not close, we just met, although we are relatives, why do u get angry when i ignore your calls/sms? Emotional la pulak..